Pause: Silence Exercise
Session 1
We spent the session today talking about the need to slow down and pause. There were probably some of you who were totally distracted during the whole talk. You were thinking about what you have to do when you get home, or what you have coming up at school this week, or any number of things. Even though we spent our time emphasizing the need to stop and breathe, I bet there were some of you who couldn’t sit still long enough to really process what we were saying.
So instead of heading right into small group this week, we are going to try something different. We are going to lead you through a time of slowing down and pausing. We are going to do an exercise in quieting ourselves—not just quieting the external noise around us, but also quieting the noise in our heads. Psalm 46:10 simply says: “Be still, and know that I am God” (NIV).
First, I want to start by eliminating all the sounds around you: no talking, no whispering, no texting, nothing. Silence yourselves on the outside, and as you do, try to focus on silencing your mind and your soul.
Whatever you may have in your hands, put it down—a phone, your hair, even your Bible. Put it down so your hands are completely free. Now close your eyes. And as you close them, I want you to intentionally and mentally ignore the images, words and noises around you. Forget about the project at school. Forget about your latest crush. Forget about the disagreement with your parents. Forget about the upcoming game. Forget about the drama with your friend. Forget about your hurt feelings, your frustration, your anger, your loneliness, and work on completely silencing your mind. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you take every thought captive.
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Now, with your hands totally empty, place them in your lap, with your fingers curled inward and hands closed. Keep them like this and work on being totally still. Notice what it is like to be fully present just where you are—not worried about what is coming up, or what is next, but to be still in the presence of God—with hands closed.
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As you are ready, slowly begin to open your hands while keeping your eyes closed. Now, take the time to notice what it is like to have open hands in the presence of God.
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Just stay present in this moment. Rest here. Pay attention to your breathing. Notice how it feels when you breathe in and when you breathe out. Every time you breathe in, realize that it is God who gave you that breath. Every time you exhale, allow yourself to release and let go of the distractions, the anxiety and the apathy in or around you. Breathe slowly and regularly as you become more and more aware of how God is present, even in your breath. Work on relaxing your entire body—from the top of your head down to your arms and legs. As you relax, continue to focus on breathing slowly.
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Close in prayer. If time allows, transition into small groups so that students can process this experience and talk about the challenges of pausing.